A few years ago a woman in her late 40’s to early 50’s walked into our shop with a friend asking to have a tire repaired. As I studied her face I could see she looked tired and drained, as if she carried a great load. I had the car pulled in, went out into the shop returning a few minutes later with the news that the tire was unrepairable and that she needed four tires on her car because they were all bald and worn out. The woman’s friend stepped in a quickly explaining that the woman’s husband had just died from cancer. All her money had been spent on the funeral and she had no money and no job. All the husband had left her was medical bills, debt, and a car with worn out tires. He said friends and family had been helping out as much as possible but they were tapped out.
When I heard this I offered to install four good used tires the size the woman needed for only $20 each (they were in very good shape). The woman said she would be back on Monday but would only replace two tires because it was all she could afford and she couldn’t get the $40.00 until then. My heart was sad as I listened and watched this scenario. The woman was slump shouldered and she left the shop. She did come in on Monday and got the two tires.
What disturbed me most was this thought: When she was married her husband was this what she saw as her future? Was this the plan? Was this the way her husband had intended to leave her? Did he want her to remember him only for leaving her with a pile of debt, no way to pay the bills, no income, and four bald tires on the car?
I have said all of that to remind all of us that we need to be sure that we have plans in place to take care of those we love when we pass from this earth. I am so happy that about four years ago I took out enough life insurance to make certain my wife of 36 1/2 years is taken care of. It hurts every March when I come up with the premium but I tell myself this is a guarantee that my wife will never have to work at Walmart. I strongly encourage everyone of you to take a serious look at what you need to do in this area of your life and business.